my ex

My Korean exgirlfriend who broke up with me in April had started talking to me again recently.  Ex now lives 6 hours away.  She gets in touch with me, we are both happy to be talking to each other again.  For a week we are talking twice a day and sending lots of text messages.  She is telling me how she is so lonely there, and she wishes she had a boyfriend and seems to hint at me visiting her.  This goes on for about a week.  Finally the discussion of "us" comes up.  Oh, I am still interested in her?  She thought I was over her and it would be ok for her to call every day.  She doesn't want a relationship, she just wanted someone to talk to.  This comes at the point where I wasn’t thinking about going to Korea at all.  Instead I am thinking about how she and I could be together again and if I would be willing to move to where she lives now.  So it looks like the Korea plans are back on.  Except now going to Korea feels like my second choice.